Almost all American high school students who apply to
college write one basic essay they give to every school. Micheal Brown, the
Houston public high school student who got into all 20 of the top colleges
where he applied, wrote not one but three main essays, then submitted the one
he thought was most appropriate to each school. I asked Micheal to share one of
those essays with Forbes, and this is the one he picked:
I jumped up and down and started shouting, “Yes we can! Yes,
we can!” But my mother was quick to correct me.
She told me, “Yes we did!” because Barack Obama had been
elected the first Black president of the United States.
November 4, 2008, marked the beginning of my personal
infatuation with politics. I was inspired that a Black man from humble
beginnings could ascend all the way to the presidency. From that point on, I
took up arms for the Democratic Party, interning for a litany of Democratic
candidates in local elections.
During my internships, I heard many similar campaign
promises from Democratic hopefuls. But as elected officials, those who were
once hopeful fell flat on their political promises. I was disappointed with the
political party that had previously inspired my political activism.
Until recently, I had never questioned my affinity with the
Democratic Party. I realized that neither party was always "right,"
and soon thereafter, I realized that the weight of political identification
requires a process of self-discovery that is thorough and complete. I desired
to experience the full political spectrum.
I progressed along the onerous process of political
identification during one memorable meal. For weeks, my friend, Chandler, was
ecstatic about an upcoming spring break trip. She invited some friends from the
tennis team to her family vacation home in Horseshoe Bay, TX.
Once we arrived at her vacation house, we unpacked our
luggage and gathered around for some steak and potatoes.
I went up to
Chandler’s father at the grill and asked for a medium-well steak. I sat down,
cut into the steak, and the myoglobin rushed out onto my plate.
For the next few minutes, I ate my bloody steak in silence.
I knew that Chandler’s mother was a board member for the Harris County
Republican Party. We had previously discussed issues like environmental
regulations and tax policy, but I had never listened to the logic behind Mrs.
Vrba’s opinions. Tonight's discussion was going to be different.
Still sulking over my rare, soupy steak, I thought intently
about which areas of political discussion would be featured on the menu.
Regardless of the specific topic, I was ready to have a translucent dialogue, a
free-flowing exchange of ideas.
In between bites of steak, Mrs. Vrba would ask about my
views on various political matters. I would provide substantial responses based
on my personal rationalization of the "standard" liberal position,
and I was surprised whenever Mrs. Vrba would agree with my opinion. I'd never
thought that a self-identified Republican would be both pro-choice and
pro-marijuana.
Mrs. Vrba's disposition challenged many of the perceived
notions and stereotypes that I held about the average conservative. She
explained that her general political affiliation stems from her childhood
experience. Growing up on a farm, Mrs. Vrba’s parents emphasized the absolute
necessity to work hard for everything in life. Her humble background meant
that, politically, she would be more concerned with maintaining a strong
conservative view on fiscal issues rather than focusing her personal political
capital on social issues, where she leans towards the political left.
“Republican” and “Democrat” are labels that we use to categorize
and simplify our opinions. My experience with the 2008 election pushed me to
label myself as a “democrat,” but I’ve come to realize that I maintain a few
conservative values. And even when there are values with which I disagree, I’ve
come to respect and understand the logical and emotional basis of the opposing
viewpoints.
323 million Americans may never agree on every single issue,
but we must come together. Mrs. Vrba and I had civil discourse over a rare
steak, so maybe if we all sit for a meal, we may discover the intersections of
our political affiliation and our living reality. Humanity reigns over
political identity because our identities are cumulative reflections of our
life experiences, communities, and interactions.
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