Singleness is not a Taboo

Singleness is the best gift God has given us right through our youthful days, for it gives us the opportunity to enjoy, learn, seek and grow. Someone defined singleness as as being whole, unique, separate and unbroken. Now that's worth celebrating right?

MULTIPLE SEX PARTNER 

So, what happens when we have multiple sexual partners?  

Scientifically, we know this: As we bond and break, bond and break, bond and break, we lose our ability to properly bond.

When we’re ready for that new, serious relationship or marriage, something is missing that prevents us from fully bonding; we don’t feel that connected or committed.

 Our feelings may seem to diminish. When we see someone else a little more exciting, more appealing, more perfect for us, we’re ready to move on in a heartbeat. 

The condition of being “crazy in love” suddenly disappears. We may say we don’t feel all that excited anymore. We may even lose faith in falling in love again.  

This is why it is important to protect our purity; spirit, soul, and body. We must understand that ability to be pure and save ourselves is not just a religious ideal. 

It’s not just about giving your valuable v-card to someone. That’s not the point. 

The point is to keep our stickiness intact so that when we find the right person, we connect with them for life. 

 Singleness is not a taboo

Now you're in a group everyone is talking about that person that tickles their fancy! 

You Don't have what to say and within you there is a chaos and you keep asking yourself "am i not good enough to have someone stay with me ? 

Another case scenario is you resolved in your heart to be free from emotional attachment and people are already seeing it as weird and you are doubting if you are making the right decision.

 Singleness is not a curse, what happens is that society is always looking for ways/means to run people's lives if you are fully convince that you're on the right track then society or Peer pressure should never make you feel less.

For me its more than interesting enjoying the fresh air of not being attached. It helps you  discover who you are and what you came here to do. you are more focused and It boosts emotional security. 

It keeps you safe,  NO EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE, EMOTIONAL DIVORCE, FEAR OF UNWANTED PREGNANCY OR STDs, FEAR OF KEEPING UP WITH SOMEONE'S STANDARD etc. At least until you are ready for a marriage.

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